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Mirei’s 12 Month Doctor’s Visit

February 5, 2015 By Misono in Mirei Tags: 1 year old, 12 months old, doctor's visit, growth, measurements, Mirei, one year old, vaccinations, visit, wellness exam

Mirei at her one year checkup

I took Mirei to the pediatrician for her 12 month wellness exam on February 3rd. As expected, Mirei is healthy and right on track for her age. The doctor was impressed at how well she was able to walk everywhere — no surprise, since she’s been walking since 9 months old and had had 3 months to master it!

Mirei’s growth is definitely starting to taper off as Mio’s did at this age. At twelve months old, she weighs 23 lbs 9 oz, which is still in the 91st percentile for weight-for-age.

Mirei's Weight Growth at 12 Months Old

 

Mirei apparently measured 29.5 inches tall, which seems off because it’s no different from her last measurement a few months ago — maybe it was an inaccurate measurement, but that puts her in the 58th percentile for height-for-age.

Mirei's Height Growth at 12 Months Old

 

Her head size was recorded at 18.2 inches around, which is in the 82nd growth percentile based on head circumference-for-age.

Mirei's Head Size Growth at 12 Months Old

 

This doctor’s visit was a bit rough… We went through the routine checkup and the usual vaccinations, all familiar to me from having gone through it with Mio. But then they told me to go to the lab to get Mirei’s blood drawn to test for anemia and lead. I was confused because I’d never heard of this test before, and asked my pediatrician to clarify, and she just briskly explained that it was a hemoglobin blood test to make sure she doesn’t have anemia as well as to check the lead levels in her blood, and then rushed out the door to her next patient. It sounded like it was a new standard requirement, so I followed her directive and went on to the lab to get Mirei’s blood drawn. It was the most traumatizing experience, both for my daughter and I — I was sitting down holding her while the lab tech repeatedly poked the needle in her arm and kept moving it around to find her veins. She tried both arms for what seemed like forever, while Mirei screamed and cried, and in the end was unsuccessful in finding her veins and drawing blood for the test. She had another lab tech come over and attempt it too, but they didn’t have any luck either. Finally, they told me to come back another day and try to hydrate her more with water ahead of time (even though she was plenty hydrated that day), but I have been incredibly reluctant to go back, because I dread having to put Mirei through that again. I know kids cry when getting poked by needles when they get vaccinated, but at least vaccinations are quick and pretty easy. It just seems kind of cruel to subject a baby to a blood draw when it seems really difficult to find their tiny veins! I’m also wondering how necessary it is to do, since my first daughter Mio never had to have this test (though we were in California at the time she turned one, and now live in Virginia). I wonder if I just ended up with really lousy lab techs? It was just so hard to watch!

Anyway, hopefully the next visit will go smoother… we’re so thankful that Mirei is healthy and doing so great in terms of her growth!

Mirei’s First Birthday Party: Part III ~ Smash Cake!

January 29, 2015 By Misono in Family and Friends, Kitchen Concoctions, Milestones, Mirei, Videos Tags: baby, birthday, birthday cake, birthday party, cake, Mio, Mirei, one year, one year old, smash cake, smashcake

Picking up from Part I and Part II of Mirei’s birthday party posts, the smash cake was the finale of her first birthday celebration! Mirei got a whole cake all to herself, to smash and lick to her heart’s content! The smash cake has become a common first birthday tradition where the child is encouraged to attack the cake with her fingers, fists, or face — no utensils required! It typically makes a huge mess but it’s very entertaining, as it was when we made one for Mio on her first birthday. I usually expect the birthday baby to have a similar method to Mio, where they just go at the cake full force, but I’ve seen other cases where the child only takes a little lick here and there, or just doesn’t want to touch the frosting at all because they don’t want to get their hands dirty! It’s always very interesting to see the differences in personalities and approaches to the smash cake, and we were really curious to see how Mirei would react to her own smash cake!

Singing the birthday song to Mirei

 

Time for the smashcake!
At first, she took a moment to look around and take in her audience.

 

You can watch Mirei with her smash cake in the following two videos:


 


 

Mirei's smashcake
“This is a good size cake they gave me.”

 

Mirei licking the frosting
“Let’s have a lick-sy…”

 

Mirei licking the frosting
Mirei’s first taste of cake!

 

Licking more frosting
Instead of smashing the cake, Mirei poked it several times (as you can observe from the holes on the side of the cake).

 

Mirei turning to see Mio
“Back off, sister… I’m still working on it!”

 

Mirei savoring the smashcake
Mirei savoring the smashcake

 

Mirei's hands on top of the smashcake

 

Mirei's smashcake

 

Mirei's smashcake

 

Digging into the top!
Digging into the top!

 

We were surprised to find that Mirei’s approach to the smash cake was much more tame than Mio’s, and that she did a lot less damage! (In fact, it was so intact that we were able to reuse the cake for her first birthday photos we posted earlier!) So interesting how siblings can be so different, even though they share the same DNA!
 

Ted photobombing!
Dan and I with our birthday girl… with a photobomb from Uncle Ted.

 

A heartfelt thank you to all of our guests who braved the wintry weather to to celebrate Mirei’s first birthday with us! It is a sweet memory that we will keep with us for years to come, and Mirei is so lucky to have so many people that love her so much. Our first year as parents of two has been challenging at times, but we really can’t imagine a life without our sweet Mirei now, and we look forward to making many more wonderful memories as a family!

Mirei’s First Birthday Party: Part II ~ Erabitori

January 28, 2015 By Misono in Family and Friends, Milestones, Mirei, Videos Tags: baby, birthday, erabitori, first birthday, first birthday party, Japanese, Japanese custom, Japanese tradition, Mio, Mirei, one year, one year old

Just as we did with her older sister, we wanted to observe the Japanese first birthday tradition of erabitori at Mirei’s first birthday party. (We opted not to do the issho mochi tradition this time with Mirei, because it was a little heartbreaking when we observed it with Mio.) For those who aren’t familiar with erabitori, here’s a brief explanation.

ERABITORI (選び取り)

The literal translation for erabitori (選び取り) is “to pick and keep an item.” The following objects were set before Mirei. It is said that the first object that the baby selects will show her calling, or a tendency towards a specific career field.

Mirei's first birthday party

WRITING BRUSH: Artist / Writer
CALCULATOR: Merchant / Good with business
BELL: Music / Performing Arts
SCISSORS: Skillful hands / Fashion or Crafting
STETHOSCOPE: Doctor or Nurse (Medicine)
CHOPSTICKS: Chef / Culinary Arts, Never go hungry
DICTIONARY: Scholar / Academic Excellence
BALL: Athlete / Career in Sports

So what did Mirei choose? Watch the videos and see the photos below!

Explaining erabitori and the items
Explaining erabitori and the items

 

Mio kind of caused a scene with a potty emergency while I was explaining the items… ::sigh::


 

…back to the main attraction! Here is Mirei choosing her item(s).


 

Go Mirei, go!
Go Mirei, go!

 

Walking towards the items...
Walking towards the items…

 

What will Mirei choose?
What will she choose?

 

What will Mirei choose?
Surveying her choices…

 

Touching the calculator
Touching the calculator at first…

 

Mirei picking up the bell
…but then picking up the bell.

 

Mirei picking up the bell

 

Mirei picking up the bell
She was really into the bell!

 

Our family at Mirei's first birthday
A family picture after Mirei’s erabitori. Still holding that bell! 😛

 

It was fun to get a peek at Mirei’s possible future calling! Will she excel in business and/or mathematics? Or pursue a career in music and the performing arts? We’ll have to see! She might just be very busy, trying out various fields throughout her life!

Stay tuned for Part III, in which Mirei gets to enjoy her first birthday smashcake!

Mirei’s First Birthday Party: Part I

January 27, 2015 By Misono in Family and Friends, Foodie Love, Kitchen Concoctions, Milestones, Mirei Tags: appetizers, baby, birthday party, birthday poster, cake, cake topper, California rolls, cupcakes, dan, family, first birthday, friends, fruit, fruit skewers, hors d'eouvres, hydrangea cupcakes, lollipops, Mio, Mirei, misono, one year, one year old, party, photobooth, pita, pita bread, pita platter, poster, smash cake, sugar cookies, vegetable platter

The day before Mirei’s actual birthday, we threw a small, intimate birthday party to celebrate the milestone of her turning one! We were admittedly feeling a little overwhelmed (and a little lazy) about doing a big celebration, but we kept the guest list short and decided we’d just do what we could and that helped ease the pressure and stress on us parents. 😉 My brother Ted and his wife Elisa were gracious enough to reserve the party room at their condo for the celebration. Unfortunately, it snowed the morning of the party and some of our guests couldn’t make it because of the weather, but we still had fun with those who were able to make it, and we stayed warm and cozy as the flurries swirled outside!

Happy birthday to our sweet Mirei!

 

First year poster for Mirei
First year poster for Mirei

 

Birthday cake for Mirei
Birthday cake for Mirei… intended to be smashed later in the party.

 

Mirei's cupcake tower
A tower of birthday cupcakes

 

"one" cupcake topper
Dan and I made these cake toppers — both the “one” atop the cupcakes and the one with her name on the smashcake.

 

hydrangea cupcakes
hydrangea cupcakes

 

sandwiches from Wegmans

 

sandwiches from Wegmans

 

Lots of food for Mirei's party

 

erabitori items
The items for erabitori

 

Mirei's first birthday party

 

Mirei's first birthday party
Cookies to be taken home as party favors.

 

lollipop party favors
lollipop party favors

 

Mirei's first birthday party
First birthday sugar cookies

 

Mirei's first birthday party
Don’t look too closely… it was my first time using gold dusting powder on sugar cookies!

 

birthday banner for Mirei
Special thanks to Miwa, Hyo, and Elisa who all helped with getting the party decorations up!

 

Mirei with Grandma, Uncle Ted, and Auntie Elisa
Everyone crowding around the birthday girl!

 

The adorable kids arriving
The adorable kids arriving

 

The adorable kids arriving

 

Mio and Anna

 

Sisters Mio and Mirei

 

The aunties
The aunties

 

Mirei and Cara

 

Mirei and Cara
Cutiepies Mirei and Cara

 

Mirei and Cara

 

Nancy and her girls
So glad Nancy and her girls could make it! Welcome back to the States!

 

The girls and I at Mirei's first birthday party

 

The girls and I at Mirei's first birthday party

 

Birthday girl walking around
The birthday girl walking around

 

Pat and I with our baby girls
Pat and I with our baby girls. Thanks so much for coming! ♥

 

Aunties posing for the photobooth
Mio with her aunties, posing for our makeshift photobooth.

 

We had set up our own little “photobooth” with an iPad app, and the kids had so much fun with it! It was really fun to see the collection of pictures at the end of the party:

 

We felt so blessed to be able to celebrate Mirei’s first birthday with such loving family and friends, and are so thankful that she is such a happy and healthy one year old! More posts to follow with the first birthday activities from the party — stay tuned!

Happy First Birthday, Mirei!

January 25, 2015 By Misono in Milestones, Mirei Tags: 1 year old, 12 months old, baby, birthday, first birthday, letter, Mirei, one year old, twelve months old

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Dearest Mirei,

Happy first birthday! I woke up this morning to you smiling up at me and I held you close, thinking of all the ways you’ve brought so much joy into our lives in the past year. We have watched you grow for the last twelve months, and we couldn’t be more proud to call your ours. How quickly you have gone from a tiny bundle of helpless newborn to a toddler who scurries around the house, sneakily grabs things from tabletops, and eagerly imitates our every gesture and sound. You are a sweet, bright little girl with an infectious smile, wide eyes that seem to take in everything (and not miss anything!), and a stubborn streak a mile long. You have such boundless energy and curiosity, and seem fearless in wanting to touch and grab anything and everything you can.

While pregnant with you, I had spent so many nights dreaming of you, wondering what you would look like, worrying about whether you would be healthy and happy… if you would be as perfect as I had imagined time and time again. I was afraid about whether I had enough room left in my heart to love another baby after investing so much love and care into our first. All of those worries and fears melted away on a Saturday morning exactly a year ago when they placed you in my arms and I knew that everything was just as it was meant to be.

Your first few months seemed a blur of constant breastfeeding and pumping, trying to balance caring for both you and your sister, sleeping (or attempting to sleep), and just making sure we were all surviving. This first year with you has flown by seemingly faster than our first year with Mio, but there are definite milestones that stick out, that I know I’ll always remember — your first smiles, your first time rolling over, your first time eating solids, your first attempts at crawling, and your first steps… and of course, memories of firsts as a family of four — our first summer with you, first family trip, first Halloween, first Thanksgiving, first Christmas, and first New Years with you — all made so much more special because you were now a part of it. You’ve enriched our lives so much more by becoming part of our family, and it really so much more complete.

My love for you is immeasurable. Every time I see you and every time I hear your voice, I fall more in love with you and driven to be a better, stronger, and kinder mother. I feel so grateful to be able to love you and your sister in this life. Just knowing you, my life is complete. Thank you for being ours, and for reminding me every day of the extreme blessings I’ve been showered with. For drawing me even closer to the other people I love. For showing me that this is how life is meant to be lived — full of color, emotion, challenges, and messes. I will always love you and be here to support you and listen. That when you are 5 or 16 or 50, you will know that my arms will always be ready to embrace you and that you are loved as you are -– nothing more or less.

We can’t wait for the gift of this next year with you, to see where the road to two will take us next.

Mama

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

Happy first birthday, Mirei!

 

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