Just as we did with her older sister, we wanted to observe the Japanese first birthday tradition of erabitori at Mirei’s first birthday party. (We opted not to do the issho mochi tradition this time with Mirei, because it was a little heartbreaking when we observed it with Mio.) For those who aren’t familiar with erabitori, here’s a brief explanation.

ERABITORI (選び取り)

The literal translation for erabitori (選び取り) is “to pick and keep an item.” The following objects were set before Mirei. It is said that the first object that the baby selects will show her calling, or a tendency towards a specific career field.

Mirei's first birthday party

WRITING BRUSH: Artist / Writer
CALCULATOR: Merchant / Good with business
BELL: Music / Performing Arts
SCISSORS: Skillful hands / Fashion or Crafting
STETHOSCOPE: Doctor or Nurse (Medicine)
CHOPSTICKS: Chef / Culinary Arts, Never go hungry
DICTIONARY: Scholar / Academic Excellence
BALL: Athlete / Career in Sports

So what did Mirei choose? Watch the videos and see the photos below!

Explaining erabitori and the items
Explaining erabitori and the items

 

Mio kind of caused a scene with a potty emergency while I was explaining the items… ::sigh::


 

…back to the main attraction! Here is Mirei choosing her item(s).


 

Go Mirei, go!
Go Mirei, go!

 

Walking towards the items...
Walking towards the items…

 

What will Mirei choose?
What will she choose?

 

What will Mirei choose?
Surveying her choices…

 

Touching the calculator
Touching the calculator at first…

 

Mirei picking up the bell
…but then picking up the bell.

 

Mirei picking up the bell

 

Mirei picking up the bell
She was really into the bell!

 

Our family at Mirei's first birthday
A family picture after Mirei’s erabitori. Still holding that bell! 😛

 

It was fun to get a peek at Mirei’s possible future calling! Will she excel in business and/or mathematics? Or pursue a career in music and the performing arts? We’ll have to see! She might just be very busy, trying out various fields throughout her life!

Stay tuned for Part III, in which Mirei gets to enjoy her first birthday smashcake!